About a year ago, I turned in my two-week notice and opted to work from home as a mom rather than work from an office (with no windows) as a mom and sometimes crazed lady.
I've learned a lot this year, including making sure not to lock yourself out of the house with a kid on your first day as a W/SAHM.
It's the simple things that seem to give me the most difficulty.
Juggling writing, going to meetings or interviews, helping with homework, and finding time for it all seemed rather easy. It was the slowing down and actually stopping to look at what I am doing that seems to trip me up. Like chewing gum and running a marathon. I'm sure I could do it, but when I start thinking about chewing the gum, I'd probably choke.
Friends--the proverbial village--are essential in raising children. Staying home with children is no different. And it amazes me the places and people you are fortunate to meet along the way. (That's its own post later, I'm sure!)
I haven't quite gotten a rhythm of things, such as playdates or balancing my needs (daily exercise!) with my family or freelancing commitments' needs. Sometimes article deadlines creep up on me like Petra when she's wearing her quiet shoes...and I become that crazed woman I promised I wouldn't become.
I know, from my own experience, I wouldn't recommend that staying at home is for everyone. It wasn't for me for a long time. For the most part, I think our family has benefited from my being at home in a number of ways.
Staying home with your kids is a personal choice, definitely, and shouldn't be taken lightly. We've been fortunate this year...and 2009 is starting to look pretty good, as well. At least one hurdle has been conquered: I can get back into the house.
Elizabeth,
ReplyDeleteI am sooo glad you are a part of my village. I can't say thanks enough for the times my family has benefited from your being at home. My kids will at least be able to tell their therapists that "Elizabeth was there when mom forgot us."